If Judgemental Is Okay Then Here's My Judgement

I occasionally peruse others blogs, a handy list of which can be found under the title Interesting Blogs According To Me. Two of these blogs, Violent Acres and Wide Lawns and Narrow Minds, will soon be disappearing.

I am bored with them. So very fucking bored. Also I never really expected them to be narrow minded. Apparently it's okay to be judgemental, according to W, so that's my judgement.

These two women think anyone who has a child out of wedlock is a slut. V thinks they should be hidden, ashamed to be pregnant without a husband. Not just a partner but a husband. Because obviously marriage is forever and never falls apart, sayeth the second wife. And according to her if you are not committed enough to marry someone you shouldn't have kids with them. This is a paragraph or so after she points out that marriage is no real commitment , you can always get a divorce. So why then does she think the marriage part is so fucking important in the first place ? What about just having an adult relationship of depth and meaning bitch ?

What is the problem with people having their kids at their weddings ? If the kid is old enough to be a flower girl/ring bearer/whatever then obviously they are committed. They have been together at least 9 months before the kid was born, and, one would assume, intending to stay together. Perhaps marriage wasn't financially viable to begin with, perhaps they had better things to spend their cash on like, nappies, baby clothes, baby food. Nah, that marriage was way more important than actually providing for their child.

According to W single women and teenagers are having children 'cause we stopped telling them it was wrong. Last time I checked the good ole' US of A was a big promoter of sexual abstinence. Isn't that a federal government sponsored thing ? Didn't it expand from it's teenage focus to single adults too? Don't have sex until you're married. So not so much on the telling them it's okay then. Oh yeah, and it makes you a slut. As long as your not wed 1 sexual partner is enough to make you a slut in the eyes of these fucktards it would seem. Perhaps teaching teenagers about contraception could be a plan ? 'Cause it's apparent that telling them not to have sex isn't working if, as you say, loads of teenagers are having babies. Then when they grow up to be single adults they will still know about contraception. Joy.

Does it matter if consensual sex occurs between two people who are married, just to someone else ? Not that I approve of such behaviour, it's just a question.

I have decided I can't be arsed thinking about the points of view of these two any longer.